Unable to connect to depot builder

none felt promising but here are some i tried to go through:

not sure about whats the constraint but my local docker builds the nextjs app with no issues but when i try to build locally with fly deploy, it just wont, im stuck on the build step for the last 30 mins, it aint even that complex just 7 pages (no route handlers/server actions im running a separate backend server)

edit : my device is mac air m4 and i have a decent network bandwidth