After struggling for several hours with DNSdist, HAProxy and Blocky I decided to simply give up on the project. I was trying to stand up a DNS server with lots of blocking (hence Blocky) but it doesn’t support the PROXY protocol itself.
This is just a side project anyway, I already do all this on a VPS with a VPN and a home router. I was just trying to share the powerful blocking I have with friends and family.