Hm, those are the two main tricks that I know of for this situation… Perhaps you could post the full output of fly m list?
(You can use the </> button in the toolbar to get an area suitable for pasting code, output, etc.)
In particular, do you see the daggers (†) from this other active forum thread?
https://community.fly.io/t/sjc-deployment-issues/26641/6
[If I remember correctly, that or an asterisk (*) indicates a failure of the underlying physical host machine(s), but I’m hunting for a reference…]